Episode 78

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Published on:

9th Jun 2025

61:: the mental & physical signs of exercise burnout (& how to get out of an exercise funk!)

Wellness girl chat with us about how to know whether or not your exercise routine is not serving you mentally or physically and when you might need just a sisterly kick in the butt to get your discipline back into gear! We chat signs and symptoms of mental and physical burnout with your current routine, how your menstrual cycle plays a role, and ways to get out of that exercise funk. Check it out! 

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00:00 - 00:42 Introduction and Episode Overview

00:43 - 01:42 Upcoming Episode Teaser

01:43 - 02:45 Switching Up Your Exercise Routine

02:46 - 04:28 Consistency vs. Variety in Workouts

04:29 - 05:23 Identifying When to Change Your Routine

05:24 - 08:51 Psychological and Physical Factors

08:52 - 09:26 [Stakt Mat]

09:27 - 13:03 Practical Tips for Switching Up Your Routine

13:04 - 15:46 Maintaining Motivation and Discipline

15:47 - 16:23 Conclusion and Next Week's Preview

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Transcript
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If you've been exercising for a while

or have exercised consistently for a

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while, you have definitely gotten to

this point at one time or another.

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So today we are going to chat about

how to know when your exercise

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routine is no longer serving you.

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How to know whether or not it just

comes down to discipline or whether

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or not you need to switch it up.

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Welcome back to Wellness Big Sis, the pod.

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I'm your host, Dr.

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Kelsey Vic, a board certified orthopedic

doctor, physical therapy, a pelvic floor

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physical therapist, and the owner and

founder of the LO Wellness Sisterhood.

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And throughout the summer we're doing some

fun sort of girly episodes, next week,

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we have a super exciting episode with Dr.

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Felice Chan, who is a traditional Chinese

medicine doctor, and someone whose

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perspective is just entirely different

than my own and someone who I learned

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so much from during our interview and.

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I know that you guys will be able to

tell as soon as like light bulbs start to

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go off in my head during the interview,

so I'm excited to share that one.

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Next week.

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We did a blog post with her in our June

newsletter, in our magazine, nostalgic

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newsletter that we put out every month.

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So if you are.

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Interested and want to get hyped for

that episode, I will leave the link to

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that magazine style newsletter below.

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That way you can learn about her, learn

about traditional Chinese medicine, some

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of the successes she's seen with her

patients, how it helps her, and then

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also her traditional Chinese medicine

toolkit for things like anxiety, acne, gut

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health, bloating, the menstrual cycle, all

things that we'll also cover next week.

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So if you've listened to the pod for

a while or know me at all in real

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life, you know that I am constantly

switching up my exercise routine.

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The pillars stay the same,

and we've chatted about some

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of those pillars before.

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I'll leave that link below too.

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But the pillars stay the same.

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But as far as the routine goes, I vary it.

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A good amount.

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I've been exercising for a very long

time, consistently, and we cannot possibly

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expect ourselves, our bodies, our brains,

our minds to tolerate the same exercise,

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that repetition over and over again.

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And so I have a few pillars that I

like to think about when it comes

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to, is it time for me to switch up my

exercise routine based on my mental

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state, based on my physical state?

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Is my body actually tolerating the.

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Routine of exercise that I'm doing,

or am I just lacking discipline

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and need a good like slap on

the butt to get back in action?

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So we'll talk through all of that

today, but I am someone who definitely

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abides by the rule of a healthy amount

of consistency, but then also mixed

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with a healthy amount of variety.

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I feel like this concept can get

actually confusing because when we

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say consistency and variety, those

are almost two sides of the spectrum.

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But when I speak about

consistency, I mean.

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In regards to muscle growth

and muscle activation and

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refining neuromuscular pathways.

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So we need that consistency in our

strength training routines with some

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of the patterns that we do, some of the

movement patterns that we do, some of

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the exercises that we do in order to

provide a sufficient amount of stimulus

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over a sufficient amount of time in order

to see the changes that we wanna see.

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Whether that is hypertrophy.

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More of a toned look aesthetic

goals, different things like that.

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We do need consistency for.

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We also need consistency to run

down and drive down those pathways

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that connect to our muscles.

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The more we use it, the less chance

we have to lose it, and so the more

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we're driving down those pathways,

the better we're able to recruit

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some of those fibers, especially

when it comes to muscle activation.

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However, we also need to be able to

vary things up slightly and drive

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down different pathways, different

mind muscle pathways, different

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neuromuscular connections, so that

we're not losing the ability to activate

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when it comes to muscle, like those

motor units or those muscle fibers.

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So we need to have that healthy

amount of consistency to see

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the change that we wanna see.

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But then also that variety to.

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Protect ourself from injury to drive

down more pathways so that we're able

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to keep those pathways for longer as

well, to get more efficient at some

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of the pathways that we might not

drive down . And I look at it as a

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highway, but I use that metaphor to

talk about mind muscle connection.

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And the more that we drive down those

pathways, the more that we utilize them,

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the better we are able to activate those

pathways and then also better speed of

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activation for those pathways as well

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. So let's chat.

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How do you know when your exercise

routine is no longer serving you?

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I know when I get to this point,

I always have to think, okay, is

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it time for me to switch it up?

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Maintaining some of those same pillars?

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'cause we do of course,

need cardiovascular fitness.

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We need strength, we need

endurance, we need power.

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We need all of these things.

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We need speed.

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We need all of these components to be.

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A healthy body, a healthy

human moving through life.

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But the way we reach some of those

pillars can differ and should differ

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throughout our exercise journey.

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So how do we know whether or not it's

time to switch it up or whether or not

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we're just being lazy and need , a good,

healthy like kick in the butt in order to.

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Get ourselves into gear.

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think I said slap in the butt earlier.

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Oh, we'll keep it in there because that's

definitely aism, so in my head I divide

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it into two categories as things to

check in on in order to know whether or

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not it's time to switch up my routine.

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And those two categories are

psychological and then also physical.

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So your mental state, but then also how

your body is tolerating that exercise.

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So when we talk about psychological,

Are you constantly feeling down or

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having trouble staying motivated,

getting over that initial barrier

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to entry with your exercises?

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Are you like, dang, I really

have to exercise today?

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I really don't want to consistently

over time, and this is where knowing

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your menstrual cycle and knowing what

phase you are in your cycle really

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helps because in that luteal phase,

we do often shift towards these more.

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Protective, less motivated

pathways a little bit.

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So if you're noticing it in your luteal

phase, maybe it's due to this hormonal

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shift within your body, but if you're

noticing it consistently over a few

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cycles, that might be indicative that

it is a more psychological barrier

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to entry that you might benefit from

switching up that routine a little bit.

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The other thing to check is if you're

feeling down in your follicular phase.

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When you are about to start exercise

or that hill to overcome in order to

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actually start your exercise session,

that day is like higher and higher

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in your follicular phase, where

we're typically more motivated, we're

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typically more willing to exercise,

and we enjoy that exercise and we

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recover better in that follicular phase.

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So if you're having some of these

down thoughts in the follicular

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phase, that might be another

indication that maybe it is time to

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switch up your routine a little bit.

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When it comes to the physical category,

this is whether or not your body and my

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body feels like it's still benefiting

from the same routine we've been doing.

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So if your body isn't positively

responding anymore, then it

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might be time to switch it up.

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And this is one of those, I feel like

when I get the urge to switch it up.

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It's a combination of both psychological

factors and then also physical factors.

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So for physical factors, I

typically notice a little bit

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more like lethargy or fatigue.

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After my workouts, I notice a little

bit more just puffiness in my body.

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After my strength training sessions, I

notice that it's a lot harder for me to

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recover from some of my cardiovascular

sessions, especially if I've been

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doing a ton of HA sprints over time.

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I just start to plateau a little

bit in those improvements in my

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strength training sessions or my

cardiovascular running sessions.

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And if you're feeling these symptoms

throughout your cycle, again, that

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might be indicative of a needed change.

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But if you notice, hey, I am in my

luteal phase, feeling a little bit

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more bloated, feeling a little bit more

fatigued, my recovery's a little poorer.

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Then that might be more of a hormonally

driven response versus something

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that indicates that you might

actually need to switch your routine.

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So it's nice to have that awareness

of where you are within your menstrual

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cycle so that can help guide your

decision on, am I lacking discipline?

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Is it hormonally driven, or do I

really need to switch up my routine?

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So for me, a lot of the time

this manifests in again,

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feeling puffier, poor recovery.

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I don't feel challenged

as much in my workouts.

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I don't feel like I wanna push

myself as much during my workouts.

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I just feel a general plateau and

a more difficult recovery after.

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Any of my exercise sessions, whether or

not that was when I was more in a Pilates

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phase or when I was in a hill sprint

phase, which again, I sprinkle those

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workouts throughout my routine nowadays.

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But sometimes that balance and that shift

and what I prioritize is how I switch up

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my routine to help my body and my mind.

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Okay, so what should you do about it?

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If you realize, okay, no, this is

something that I need to switch it up.

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I am not enjoying working out anymore.

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I'm not enjoying exercise anymore.

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Whether that's psychological

reasons, physical reasons,

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or a combination of both.

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So my first recommendation

I actually got from Dr.

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Shannon over at F Low Fitness,

and every 12 weeks or so, I

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believe they program a reset week.

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So this is a full week.

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Off of your typical workouts and you

can sprinkle it in with vacation.

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It doesn't have to come at

the end of the 12 weeks.

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You can time it with your schedule, but

it's a nice sort of exhale throughout your

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training and your programming to reset

and just realize I don't have to put the

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pressure on myself to work out in the

way that I had been working out before.

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I can add in some walks, I can add

in pickleball, I can do nothing.

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It's just this week to reset,

and I think that's a really

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healthy way to approach things.

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I don't know if any of

you guys have ever done.

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Any sort of artistic sport.

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Before I was a gymnast, a cheerleader,

and a lot of the times after I was sick,

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so almost a forced reset week throughout

my training, I would immediately

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get a new skill after that break.

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So whether a lot of the times it came

down to a tumbling skill or a skill

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on beam or bars, I would always get

that skill immediately after a week

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of being sick or a forced reset.

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And there's something scientific about

this where it does take your brain time

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to fine tune those pathways a little bit

where we need that little bit of a break.

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We need that variety in some way.

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So if you're feeling this way and

you really do like your routine and

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you feel like it's still really good

for you, maybe it's just time to

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take a week off and then start it

back up after that week of a reset.

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These next ones might seem a

little bit more obvious, but try

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a new style or a new breakdown.

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If you're used to four days of

strength, one day of running, one

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day of Pilates, change up that

balance a little bit, shift it.

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Or if you're like, okay,

I'm sick of Pilates.

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Let me try bar, similar style I

guess, or similar goals sometimes

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with that form of movement, but a

little bit different to where your

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body is challenged in a new way.

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You could also try more group

fitness classes or friend workouts.

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I know a lot of the time when I'm

struggling with motivation or discipline

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really is what it comes down to.

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I'll oftentimes ask my husband

or my sisters or my friends, Hey,

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can you work out with me today?

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I'm struggling getting started, but

I know that it's not because it's

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not right for my body or my mind.

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It's just my discipline and my

motivation is struggling today.

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I mentioned this a little bit before,

but maybe the balance isn't right.

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Maybe we need to add in more cardio

days, more strength days, more

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stabilization days, or smaller muscle

group days like Pilates, like the

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bar classes, like deep core work.

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So switching up the

balance of your workouts

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might be a way to switch it

up enough to help your body

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psychologically and physically.

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And then lastly, I do think knowledge

helps understanding what your body is

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going through, how your body responds

to different forms of exercise.

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Some of the time that helps me

really stick with a certain routine.

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Or helps me problem solve on what to add

into my routine based on things that I

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might not have in my routine currently,

like those smaller muscle groups.

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That's the one I'm really working

on right now is I feel like I have

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a good balance of strength and

cardiovascular fitness work, but I don't

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necessarily have a dedicated day for

some of those smaller muscle groups.

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So that's something in my own mind

where I'm like, maybe I need to add

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that to switch it up just a little bit.

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So understanding what your body

actually requires in order to do that

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exercise and how that exercise actually

benefits your body and helps for life.

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And then lastly, if you think it might

be related to discipline, if you're

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like, Nope, nope, doesn't apply.

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Doesn't apply throughout all of this.

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Maybe it is related to discipline

and motivation, try a workout

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challenge with your friends.

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I just had a lot of my family in

from out of town and my cousin

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and her husband were mentioning

they had a friend challenge where.

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They set up the challenge for you

get a point for each workout and you

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have to get a minimum of five or six

points a week, so five or six workouts.

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They were also tying it to alcohol

consumption, so if you consumed alcohol,

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you had to do another workout, and that

workout negated the alcohol if you drank

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alcohol, you'd have to do a two a day

workout, but not that you get two points.

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It was just that the alcohol was

minus one point and that second

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workout was plus one point.

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So that sort of negated each other, and

I thought that was just a fun challenge.

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They were doing it with her.

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Sister-in-law and brother-in-law, and so

something as simple as that where it's a

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point system and at the end of the six to

eight weeks you get some sort of reward.

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It's okay to have that external or

extrinsic motivation in order to help

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kickstart or get you back on some

of those healthy routines that you

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are struggling with motivation for.

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This one's big for me, but

setting it in my calendar.

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I love a checklist.

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I love checking things off the list.

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I love deleting things off my calendar,

so putting it in my calendar and actually

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doing it and then checking it off is

one of those things that helps me get

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motivated and stay a little bit more

disciplined in my exercise routine.

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Accountability, like that

friend challenge, or even just

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texting your friend like, Hey,

I'm struggling with discipline.

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I'm going to text you every time

I work out and I want you to do

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the same if they're struggling to.

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That way you guys can keep each other both

accountable and have someone to report

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to make sure that you are maintaining

some of those healthy routines.

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And then this last one, I remember

all the time in school, people would

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tell us this when starting homework

or even cleaning the house as kids.

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Set a timer for five minutes,

see what you can get done.

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If you don't feel like

it after, that's okay.

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At least you showed up for yourself.

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So thinking of exercise and movement

like that where, set a timer, five, 10

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minutes, and usually after that amount

of time, you're like I'm already.

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25% of the way there, or

whatever the percentage is,

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might as well finish it out.

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So just setting the timer, committing

to a smaller amount of time, and

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then seeing what your body and

your mind will give you after that.

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I know sometimes it is hard to figure

out what is working and what is not.

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So I am a big signs girl and

symptoms girl when it comes to this.

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So this is the checklist I go through

to know whether or not I need to switch

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up my routine or whether or not it is

related to discipline and motivation.

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And I just need a slap in the butt, kick

in the butt to get myself into gear.

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So I hope you enjoyed this episode.

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Again, keeping it fun,

lighthearted, girly.

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Stay tuned for next week

where we interview Dr.

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Felice Chan, a traditional

Chinese medicine doctor.

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I'm so excited for you to hear her

episode and just get to meet her

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virtually because she is such a.

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Call me a presence and I really feel like

you guys will absolutely love her episode.

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So stay tuned for that next week.

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But I hope you guys enjoyed this episode.

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A comment, subscribe, review

all of that, super duper helps.

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let me know what else you guys want to

Wellness Girl chat about throughout the

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summer and I'll see you guys again on the

next episode of Wellness Exists, the pod.

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